DeShelle Burrowes, LPC, SEP, CLC, CMIP
Her First Impression: Focused, excited clarity. DeShelle learned the hard way that lasting attraction cannot be built on the hope that someone will change. She teaches clients to audit partners based on who they are today, ensuring long-term compatibility is rooted in reality.
Operating Logic: Attachment & Longevity Strategist
"Look at the person in front of you today. If nothing about them changes over the next 30 years, can you see yourself building a life together?"
Philosophy
DeShelle doesn't view relationship coaching as a series of clinical check-ins; she views it as the art of helping clients find and sustain the love of their life. Leaving behind the rigid constraints of traditional therapy, she brings a warm, growth-focused energy to the Babe ecosystem.
Her core reality check forces clients to step out of the fantasy of "potential" and evaluate real-time compatibility. Whether you are navigating the modern dating scene, re-entering after a hiatus, or balancing the complex architecture of partnership and parenting, DeShelle brings a calm, strategic presence to help you cut through the anxiety, align with your true desires, and build a partnership designed for the long haul.
Expertise
If you were a fly on the wall during a session with DeShelle, the first thing you’d hear her say to an anxious client is a simple, grounding directive: "BREATHE."
As a "Deep-Listener and Patterns" strategist, DeShelle creates a calm, highly reflective workspace where you can slow down and organize your thoughts.
Operating Logic
Guided by the science of Adult Attachment Theory (informed by Levine and Heller's Attached), she helps you decode your attachment defaults, spot recurring relational loops, and understand how your nervous system responds to intimacy. Her sessions are designed to move you from frantic overthinking into clear, strategic momentum.
Outside of her work as an LMFT and coach, DeShelle is dedicated to the art of wellness and the "soft life." She believes that a sustainable, high-performing relationship should bring ease, luxury, and peace to your life—not perpetual conflict or emotional exhaustion. This philosophy directly informs her coaching: she helps you strip away unnecessary friction so you can experience connection that feels as grounding as it is fulfilling.
Reality Check
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